The SIZE TIME Maze

This blog of mine would be a Paradigm shift for the people who have read my previous blog I would like to be a bit serious as I would be talking about some serious stuff in it.
This blog is on my thoughts that I have kept within myself for some time now. I may not be an Einstein who though about relativity nor am I a Newton who asked himself why did the apple fall down. On a normal day I wouldn’t mind the fact that the apple fell down but sitting quietly under a tree with no job in hand and bugged with life I feel I would have had the same feeling too, I am though not taking any credit away from Newton stating this, nor am I trying to say that the laws should be hence forth Sid’s three laws of gravity. All of this was about Newton expressing his curiosity and I want to as well.
I was in 4th standard when my folks sent me to a boarding school in Nainital called Birla Vidya Mandir there we had model a huge one of Nainital and I use to take keen interest in spotting thing in it I use to spot my school in it ,our hostel, our class rooms and yes the model too. The model well that’s what made me think so much, so I would try to spot myself standing in it and then would try to find our school again in it, then the model and my self again and that would go on and on and I would fail to understand to what extent I could spot things within the model, I meant how small .Okay the second thought that use to arise in my mind what if we are in a model and some one is thinking the same about us .imaging the whole universe being inside a box as small as a matchbox !! How small would we be, really small because we haven’t been able to figure out the end of the universe yet. Now how small would an electron be in that tiny box!! Well that’s what I wonder...And what if we were in an electron not a box..?? Small right but I fail to imagine how small ….
The second thing that has troubled me is time. What do we understand by it …? Could never figure out …
” this is what I could find from one of the articles on the net googling ---Two distinct views exist on the meaning of time. One view is that time is part of the fundamental structure of the universe, a dimension in which events occur in sequence. This is the realist view, to which Isaac Newton subscribed, in which time itself is something that can be measured. A contrasting view is that time is part of the fundamental intellectual structure (together with space and number) within which we sequence events, quantify the duration of events and the intervals between them, and compare the motions of objects. In this view, time does not refer to any kind of entity that "flows", that objects "move through", or that is a "container" for events. This view is in the tradition of Gottfried Leibniz and Immanuel Kant, in which time, rather than being an objective thing to be measured, is part of the mental measuring system.”
And then how can time be the same for all, now when I am mentioning all I mean all the things present in this world. This thought had come into my mind when I was observing the weird kind of insects that have a life span of one night .those 12 hours that insect lives would be like 70 years of our life…..may be or may be the seventy years we live would be just a flash for some other thing in this universe. We burst crackers and that particle that go up in the air some reach higher some don’t (“that would be some live longer and some don’t …that’s what I think in my own way”) some explode and become into smaller particles and emit light...The whole thing happens in a flash...and that’s life cycle of a cracker. It would have lived its life going up then exploding and then emitting light...we feel it was a flash but was it the same for that particle..??? Don’t know.
All the examples I have taken are to explain my thoughts and would ask you to not argue over me on Living and Nonliving things. I would like to get an explanation about these things by someone who first understands what I actually mean.